Real life conversation in Italian:
10 Italian expressions you won’t find on duolingo.

LIFESTYLE

Noemi B. | 7 min read

7/18/2025

Friends enjoy pizza and conversation in a restaurant.
Friends enjoy pizza and conversation in a restaurant.

Learn real Italian expressions and add emotional depth to your language skills.

Learning a language is much more than memorising vocabulary and conjugating verbs, as I always say, it’s about a whole Vita(life)! It’s about capturing the rhythm, nuance, and soul of the language. Native speakers often use phrases and expressions that aren’t taught in traditional textbooks, yet they are key to real life interactions.

In this article, you’ll discover 10 expressions Italians use daily, and how mastering them can help you express yourself and communicate with more depth.

three men and one woman laughing during daytime
three men and one woman laughing during daytime
a man and a woman sitting at a table with wine glasses
a man and a woman sitting at a table with wine glasses

1. Magari

Meaning: “I wish” / “If only”
Why it matters: This little word carries layers of wistfulness and hope. Whether daydreaming about a nice holiday or hoping your take away pizza arrives faster, magari adds emotional texture to your speech.
Example:
- Vai in vacanza in Agosto? Are you going on holiday in August?
- Magari! In agosto lavoro, purtroppo. I wish! In August I am working, unfortunately.
Insider tip: It’s also a subtle way to express future desire without sounding pushy or impatient.

2. Che figata! / Che forte!

Meaning: “That’s awesome!” / “So cool!”
Why it matters: It shows enthusiasm and instantly connects you to younger speakers as it is an expression used especially by youngsters.
Example:
- Ho prenotato i biglietti per il concerto dei Maneskin! I booked the tickets for Maneskin’s concert
- Che figata! So cool!

Use with care: It's very informal, so avoid using it with older/new people or in formal situations.

3. Boh

Meaning: “I dunno.”
Why it matters: It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. This little expression is packed with gesture and attitude.
Example:
- Perché hai fatto così? Why did you do that?
- Boh. I dunno.

Gesture alert: Pair this with a tilted head and a resigned hand flip, and you’re practically a local.

4. Ci sta

Meaning: “That works” / “Fair enough”
Why it matters: It’s the go-to phrase for approval, agreement, or simply going with the flow.
Example:
- Facciamo aperitivo alle otto? Shall we have aperitivo at 8?
- Ci sta. That works

Bonus context: It’s perfect for commenting on ideas, outfits, or even emotions you agree or approve on.

5. Ma dai!

Meaning: “Come on!”
Why it matters: This phrase can express surprise, disbelief, or playful annoyance, all depending on your tone.
Example:
- Hai mangiato tutta la pizza? You have eaten all the pizza?
- Ma dai! Come on!

Tone tip: Stretch the "dai" for dramatic effect when reacting to gossip.

6. In bocca al lupo

Meaning: “Good luck!”
Why it matters: Italians rarely say buona fortuna. Instead, they offer this unique expression, literally, “into the wolf’s mouth.”
Example:
- Hai l’esame di italiano domani? You have you Italian exam tomorrow?
- In bocca al lupo! Good luck!

Cultural note: Always reply with Crepi! (wishes the wolf to die) it’s considered bad luck otherwise.

7. Non vedo l’ora

Meaning: “I can’t wait”
Why it matters: Expresses pure excitement and anticipation.
Example: Non vedo l’ora di vedere Venezia! I can’t wait to see Venice!
Emotional depth: It’s not just impatience, it’s joyful longing. Italians use this phrase with heart.

8. Che casino!

Meaning: “What a mess!” / “Total chaos!”
Why it matters: This versatile expression can describe everything from traffic jams to your inbox, or even a dramatic family dinner.
Example: C’erano mille persone alla festa, che casino! There were a thousand people at the party, such a mess!/So busy!
Be careful: In formal contexts, casino can be considered a bit crude. Context is key.

9. Ce la fai!

Meaning: “You’ve got this!” / “Come on, you’ll make it!”
Why it matters: This phrase delivers both warmth and motivation. It’s perfect for cheering someone on in moments of doubt or difficulty.
Example: L’esame è difficile, ma ce la fai! The exam is difficult, but you’ve got this!
Tone tip: It feels informal and personal. Use it to show support with genuine optimism, not pressure.

10. Faccio fatica…

Meaning: “I’m struggling…” / “It’s tough for me…”
Why it matters: This gentle phrase expresses effort and vulnerability without drama. Italians use it to talk about challenges, physical, emotional, or mental, while still expressing resilience.
Example: Faccio fatica a capire il congiuntivo. I struggle do understand congiuntivo.
Context clue: It’s a great way to show self-awareness and progress without shame, ideal in personal conversations and honest reflections.

people laughing and talking outside during daytime
people laughing and talking outside during daytime

Why everyday expressions matter:

These expressions aren’t just linguistic decoration, they are a way to connect with people when speaking in Italian. By mastering them, you can:

  • Sound more spontaneous

  • Navigate conversations with intention

  • Build deeper connections with native speakers

Unlock your full Italian potential!

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